1. As You Interact with Each Person During the Day, Ask Yourself: “Is this Relationship One I Should Build or Limit?”
We interact with many people every day, from coworkers to family members to strangers. Each of these interactions can have a significant impact on our relational wellbeing. Therefore, it’s essential to ask yourself whether each relationship is one you should build or limit. Some relationships may be positive and worth investing in, while others may be negative and draining.
2. If It Is One to Build, Ask Yourself: “How Can I Help Myself to...”
Once you’ve identified the relationships you want to build, it’s essential to take action to strengthen them. Ask yourself how you can help yourself to feel like you belong, have more freedom, have some fun, feel strong and in control of yourself, and feel safe. These are all essential elements of healthy relationships, and focusing on them can improve your relational wellbeing.
3. Consistently Act on It
Identifying the relationships you want to build and how you can strengthen them is only the first step. To improve your relational wellbeing, you must consistently act on these insights. This means taking action to build positive relationships and limit negative ones. It may involve reaching out to a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while, setting boundaries with a toxic family member, or even meeting new people.
Our relationships have a significant impact on our overall wellbeing. To improve our relational wellbeing, we must prioritise our connections with others and take action to build positive relationships while limiting negative ones. Incorporating this daily checklist into your routine can help you strengthen your relationships and feel happier and more fulfilled in your social interactions. Remember to ask yourself whether each relationship is worth building or limiting, focus on the essential elements of healthy relationships, and consistently act on your insights. With consistent practice, you can boost your relational wellbeing and enjoy more positive and fulfilling relationships.