Posts

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 12: THE NEXT HERO’S JOURNEY

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 12: The Next Hero's Journey After completing the stages of the Hero's Journey and basking in the joy of returning home with your hard-earned prize, you may have found solace in the familiar comforts of the old. Spending time with loved ones and taking well-deserved rest brought a sense of contentment.  Yet, amidst this tranquility, a subtle restlessness begins to stir within you. That lingering feeling resurfaces, whispering that there is something more to explore, something missing in the depths of your being. You come to realize that life itself is a tapestry of interconnected journeys. The completion of one Hero's Journey does not signify the end of your quest. In fact, you may find yourself simultaneously embarking on multiple Hero's Journeys, each presenting unique challenges and opportunities for growth. At the core, our existence is driven by the pursuit of growth. We are meant to continuously evolve, seeking new treasures, embracin...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 11: HERO RETURNS HOME

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 11: Hero Returns Home The Hero's Journey has reached its culmination, and you stand triumphant, having claimed your hard-earned reward. The time has come to return to your ordinary world, carrying with you the wisdom and transformation gained from your epic quest. As you embark on the journey back home, you bring with you a newfound perspective and a wealth of experiences. The knowledge and insights acquired along the way have shaped you into a person of greater strength and resilience. You have faced countless trials, overcome fears, and discovered hidden depths within yourself. Upon your return, it becomes clear that you are not the same person who set out on this adventure. Your presence radiates a sense of growth and self-assurance. The ordinary world, once familiar, now appears in a different light, as if it has undergone its own transformation. You have become a bridge between the old and the new, seamlessly blending the lessons learned in the e...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 10: HERO IS TRANSFORMED

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 10: Hero is Transformed In this pivotal stage of the Hero's Journey, you have triumphed over your negative energies and become the master of your inner demons. Through your relentless dedication and transformation, you have surpassed the limitations of your ordinary world, transcending into the realm of a true hero. By facing the genuine risk of failure and confronting your deepest fears head-on, you have demonstrated unwavering commitment to your Hero's Journey, relentlessly pursuing the desired outcome you seek. Now, you possess a profound understanding of your own strength, realising that you are capable of not only achieving your goals but also surpassing them. To navigate this transformative stage effectively, it is essential to be crystal clear on your "why"—the greater purpose that fuels your determination to overcome limitations and challenges. Identify the key resources that will empower you to navigate this stage with the utmos...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 9: RECEIVING REWARD

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 9: Receiving Reward In the stage of "Receiving the Reward" in the Hero's Journey, you have embraced your authentic self and aligned with what truly matters to you. Having faced the fire and emerged as the true hero, the size or perceived significance of your accomplishments doesn't matter. What's important is acknowledging and celebrating your achievements. Don't let your hard-earned rewards go unnoticed. Take the time to truly receive and embrace them. Often, the rewards are already present; the key is to open yourself up to receiving them. Through surviving the trials and letting go of what needed to be released, we undergo a profound transformation. In the process of receiving and embracing the rewards, we discover our inner strength and power, realising that we are capable of applying these strategies to other areas of our lives. This realisation empowers us to create further positive change and embrace new opportunities for ...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 8: FACING THE ORDEAL

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 8: Facing the Ordeal Facing the Ordeal is a pivotal stage of the Hero's Journey where you confront your deepest fears, hidden wounds, and formidable challenges. It serves as the second threshold, surpassing the difficulty of the initial Crossing of the Threshold. During this stage, you come face to face with the negative energies that have hindered your progress, gaining a profound understanding of their true magnitude and influence. Whether it's a person, a challenging circumstance, or an internal obstacle, you must confront and conquer it head-on. Think about someone in your life whom you have been avoiding but need to confront for your growth. Alternatively, consider a situation you have been evading that requires your attention and action. It is also essential to recognise and challenge the limiting beliefs that arise when facing the ordeal. Identify the one thing that is currently hindering you the most from attaining your desired "treas...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 7: THE APPROACH

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 7: The Approach The Approach is the final trial before you shed your inauthentic self and embrace the true hero within you. Throughout your journey, your friends and allies have provided unwavering support, while the challenges you faced have shaped you into who you are today. Now, all the stages you've traversed merge together, and your growth has prepared you to take these next decisive steps. During this phase, the world may appear darker, and life can feel discouraging. It's as if you've reached the deepest and darkest point of your Hero's Journey. But remember, it is precisely in these moments that the light is about to break through. "It is always darkest before the dawn!" Reflect on a time when you felt this way or consider if you're currently facing a similar situation in your life. You have the power to perceive it as a lonely cave or as your transformative "butterfly moment." Just like a caterpillar that d...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 6: THE ROAD OF TRIALS

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 6: The Road of Trials As you progress on your Hero's Journey, you will encounter the Road of Trials—a path filled with challenges and tests that will put your abilities and determination to the test. However, amidst these trials, you will also find friends and support to aid you along the way. It's important to understand that whenever you move forward towards new triumphs, resistance is inevitable. There will always be forces that oppose your vision and desired outcomes. Embrace this resistance as an opportunity for growth. By facing and overcoming challenges, you can develop the skills and resilience necessary to succeed. The new world you enter may seem more complex than you initially anticipated. It will push you to your limits and test your skills, talents, and abilities. These challenges serve as valuable teachers, revealing your boundaries and showing you where you believe your limits lie. Through perseverance and determination, you will le...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 5: CROSSING THE THRESHOLD

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 5: Crossing the Threshold Crossing this threshold can be an exhilarating yet daunting experience. If there was anxiety during the Call to Adventure, the threshold may seem downright terrifying. Saying goodbye to everything familiar is not for the faint-hearted. It's natural to feel uncomfortable and out of your element, questioning if you made the right decision to leave your ordinary world behind. These moments of doubt and uncertainty are part of the growth process. We all experience them and call them "growing pains" for a reason. As you stretch yourself and push beyond your comfort zone, you will encounter the pains of stretching, but you will also discover the vast potential the new world holds for you. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. The act of crossing thresholds is highly symbolic. It signifies your commitment to change and your willingness to embrace the unknown. Despite any challenges or fears you may encounter, know t...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 4: MEETING THE MENTOR

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 4: Meeting the Mentor As you embark on your journey of personal growth and transformation, it's incredible how the world responds to your commitment to change. When you wholeheartedly decide to move forward, you'll often find that a mentor appears in your life (it’s not magic, it’s because you’ve latched your reticular-activating system onto an intent and now your brain is filtering reality to gather information to support your intent). This mentor can take various forms—a person who crosses your path, a book that captivates your attention, or even a YouTube video that resonates deeply. Keep your senses attuned as you go about your day, and be open to recognising the mentors that seemingly appear out of nowhere, offering the much-needed support and guidance you can utilise. Perhaps it's the stranger you strike up a conversation with while buying coffee, or a song on the radio during your commute to work that provides inspiration. It could be a...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 3: REFUSAL OF THE CALL

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 3: Refusal of the Call In the Journey of a Hero, it is not uncommon for the call to be met with resistance. This refusal can manifest in various ways—through inaction, a missed opportunity, or even outright rejection. Unconsciously, we often create barriers that prevent us from accepting the call. Perhaps you convince yourself that you are not ready or that you are uncertain about which path to follow. However, it's crucial to recognise that refusing the call brings the story to an abrupt end. The ordinary world remains unchanged, and no progress is made. The fact is, there will always be a reason to not do something. If you truly desire change, it is vital to accept the call. Fortunately, we are not always limited to a single chance. When tempted to refuse, understanding the underlying reasons can be immensely helpful. By identifying the obstacles that hinder us, we can take steps to remove or minimise their impact. About the Book…“Harness Your Hero”...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 2: CALL TO ADVENTURE

Image
Prefer video? See below: Stage 2: Call to Adventure Embarking on the heroic journey requires us to heed the compelling call to action that beckons us. This call can take the form of a particular event or a simple conversation. Regardless of its nature, its purpose remains consistent: to disrupt the comfort of our Ordinary World and present us with a challenge or quest that demands our attention. Pause for a moment: Which aspects of your life do you find unacceptable in their current state? What new outcome do you yearn to achieve—a goal so captivating and powerful that it propels you to leave behind the familiar and embrace the unknown? This deep desire for change, this yearning within you, is the elixir you seek. It becomes your Call to Adventure—an exhilarating invitation to embark on a transformative journey of growth and self-discovery. About the Book…“Harness Your Hero” Identified by academics as a story told throughout the ages, ‘The Hero’s Journey’ offers the guidance, narrative...

HARNESS YOUR HERO - STAGE 1: THE ORDINARY WORLD

Image
Prefer video? See below: Your Journey Begins…Stage 1: The Ordinary World Sometimes, a soft, small voice inside your head gently whispers that you are not entirely happy and that life is not quite where you want it to be. You can’t quite pinpoint the source of this feeling, but it lingers within you, nudging you to explore beyond your current circumstances. Where are you in your Hero’s Journey right now? Take a moment to reflect. Are you genuinely content with where you are? Or do you sense that something is not aligned with your desires? Do you feel the need for change? Perhaps, it’s your environment that needs a shift, or maybe it’s within yourself that the transformation must begin. Trust that intuitive feeling deep within you; it is urging you to embrace the possibility of a better day, year, and life. Listen attentively to the voice that sets you apart from your ordinary world, for it asks you to take a risk on yourself. It invites you to step out in faith and embark on your Hero’...

THE TRANSFORMATIVE POWER OF ACCEPTANCE: EMBRACING LIFE'S UNANSWERED QUESTIONS

Image
In the complex tapestry of life, there is one constant: uncertainty. We all encounter moments when questions arise, and answers seem elusive. This ambiguity can be unsettling, triggering stress and anxiety. However, there's a profound wisdom in acceptance—the act of acknowledging and making peace with the reality that uncertainty is an integral part of our human experience. In this article, we'll explore the significance of acceptance and how it can enhance our well-being, supported by scientific research. The Science of Acceptance Stress Reduction Acceptance has been scientifically linked to stress reduction. A study published in the journal Mindfulness reveals that individuals who practice acceptance through mindfulness techniques experience a significant decrease in stress levels. When we accept that some questions may not have immediate answers, we release the tension associated with our relentless pursuit of certainty. Improved Mental Health The impact of acceptance on men...

HEALTHY LIVING: BUILDING POSITIVE LIFESTYLE HABITS

Image
In our fast-paced and often hectic lives, it's easy to overlook the importance of adopting healthy lifestyle habits. However, these habits play a significant role in our overall well-being, impacting not only our physical health but also our mental and emotional states. In this article, we'll delve into the science-backed benefits of key lifestyle habits that can help you lead a healthier and more fulfilling life. Move Regularly The saying "sitting is the new smoking" has gained traction in recent years, and for good reason. Research published in the journal PLOS ONE suggests that prolonged sitting can lead to various health issues, including obesity and cardiovascular problems. Incorporating regular physical activity into your daily routine not only helps maintain a healthy weight but also improves mood and boosts cognitive function. Contact with Nature Spending time in nature, also known as "green therapy," has been linked to reduced stress, anxiety, and d...